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Family, as object of spiritual birth of mankind, a variety of relations between its members, the responsibility, alive reaction to the slightest details - all this the factors influencing emotional and moral formation of the person.
And as a lot of intimate heat happens it is spent, because of inability to understand. Today a father's role is complex and problematic. Let alone that in many families the fathers in general are absent.
In one of the cheerful April days, day of Astronautics - April, 12, in kindergarten "Zhuravlik" the fathers of pupils of the given establishment have gathered.
The theme of conference most, that on is actual in one year of family in Russia - « the Role of the father in education of children at the present stage of development of family and a society ».
Conference was opened songs by pupils of younger and senior groups, and also « the future Olympic champion on art gymnastics » Vika.
 Then the manager of a kindergarten Gerasimova Lyudmila Nikolaevna has told, that « in 2006 our collective has accepted the program of pedagogical support of family and a kindergarten №14 "Zhuravlik" for 2007-2010 academic years. According to this program the kindergarten successfully works the third year above a problem of interaction of a kindergarten and family. All pedagogical collective accepts active participation in this program.
The last year within the framework of the given program the first conference on a theme « Interaction of a kindergarten and family in conditions of the social - pedagogical environment » was carried out. Within last three years we closely cooperate with faculty of preschool education of a teacher's college Yakut State University of M.K.Ammosov. With their help this year we have protected the city experimental program « Education of the complete attitude to family of children of preschool age » owing to what since this year kindergarten "Zhuravlik" became an experimental platform ».
The supervisor of studies of the given project is Dr. Sc. (Pedagogy), the professor Grigorjeva Antonina Аfanasjevna , and the scientific - methodical head - Cnd. Sc.(Pedagogy) Baisheva Maria Ivanovna .
The deputy of the municipal Duma, the general director of a trading house "Pioneer" and the trustee of kindergarten "Zhuravlik" Burzev Аjal Semenovich has given minute of time and . Having told about the work, he has handed the letter of thanks to the Head of kindergarden Gerasimova Lyudmila Nikolaevna . Аjal Semenovich has noted importance of spent conference and has told, that « if suddenly there will be any questions in the public reception which is temporarily settling down in the trading house « the Pioneer », for you wait in all working days of week ».
The scientific - methodical head, к.п.н., the senior lecturer of faculty of preschool education of teacher's college YSU Baisheva Maria Ivanovna has acted with the basic report on a theme: « the Role of the father in education of children at the present stage of development of family and a society ». Maria Ivanovna has reminded the going parents, that, not looking on anything, they remain main in education of children, and teachers only can prompt and direct them from the professional point of view. By results of questioning boys do not want to become daddies when they get grower, the image of the father tired after work, for them is boring.
Main this partnership in life and in education of both parents. You see till five years at the child the script of adult life is pawned, and they on the example should show the child what there will be his future home life.
Education has two wings:
1). Parent education - accepting love;
2). Fatherly education - giving love.
The combination of the data of two man's and female outlooks on life also is a basis of complete development of the person of the child.
One more important item in education is availability of the father. You see as has shown interrogation, father is necessary on the third place in the list of to whom the child goes with the problems, after friends and mother.
In the conclusion Maria Ivanovna has noted positive changes in shape of a kindergarten and high serviceability of collective.
On the part of parents doctor - surgeon Kazanov Vladislav Nikolaevich about « preventive maintenance of a children's traumatism » has acted. Vladislav Nikolaevich, mainly, spoke about burns and chilblains at children. « At burns at once it is necessary to lower the injured surface under a jet of water or to apply a cold. And only after 5-6 hours a burn to treat a solution of ointment.
At grinding the frost-bitten places by snow microcracks are created, therefore it makes does not follow. After returning home if it is hands mittens to remove not at once as the difference of temperatures will give negative effect, and after 10-20 minutes.
On a question « who is more subject to traumas boys or girls? » Vladislav Nikolaevich has answered, that « certainly boys by virtue of the greater activity ».
The tutor of an item of group Andreeva Svetlana Ivanovna has told about « the Father as about a major factor of an optimum microclimate in family ». Then has acted Khovrova Uljyana Ivanovna with the report on a theme: « Authority of the father on eyes of the child ».
The tutor of ml. Groups Rumjantseva Maria Jur'evna has mentioned a theme « Roles of the father in life of the daughter ». She has told, that family pastime should not be reduced to joint viewing telecasts in the evening then, the family amicably departs to dream.
All future romantic relations of girls depend on their mutual relation with the fathers. If father is an alcoholic and an idler, the daughter all life will try to throw out him from heart. If he the gentle and loving tutor, she will search for favourite, equal to the father on qualities and on appearance. If father counts the daughter beautiful, she herself will count those. If father finds her uninteresting and unattractive she will have problems with a self-estimation.
With the help of parents at the child representation is gradually pawned about what should be family. An evident sample of a wrong example became role-playing game of "daughter - mother", the girl explains daddy: « you will go for work, and after returning to drink vodka ». « But I do not want to drink vodka », - that protests. « It is necessary. All of daddy do so », - the small mistress confidently declares. Unfortunately, we can observe a similar picture in many families where the rare celebration does without alcoholic drinks and for the child it is norm.
Father should be the friend of children, not overlooking thus, that is father what to begin education it is necessary from birth of the child and to become complicated in process of his growth.
The instructor in physical culture Nesterova Natalia Ivanovna has told how to build simple sports corner the child at home. A theme of a healthy way of life has continued doctor - pediatrist Burnasheva Zhanna Muratovna. She has told, that polyvitamins is a problem of all inhabitants of the north, for preventive maintenance of a rickets at children's age it is necessary to accept solar baths and cod-liver oil.
Закаливание, douche, contrast souls it is necessary to begin gradually. To run barefoot on a grass and sand, in the winter for these purposes to fill with a pebble, nubbins and to sand special boxes in the summer. It is not necessary to forget about massage and work therapy. Let the child since early years studies to remove behind itself toys to help parents.
The psychologist of the rahabilitation centre of Yakutsk Pribytkova Sargylana Dmitrievna has told about that, « How to save the child from harmful habits ». And doctor - narcologist Pribylyh Arinkina Galina Vasil'evna has acted with the report on a theme: « Children and psychoaktiv substances ».
Conference consist of three parts:
I. Plenary session and work on two sections: « the healthy way of life » and « Intellectual development of children in family »
II. Competitions and games: a quiz « cleverest daddy », game « most resourceful daddy », competition of hand-made articles « Daddy - able fingers »
III. Summarizing conference, acceptance of recommendations and rewarding of active parents and congratulatory numbers.
Yana Маlardyrovа,
press-service SITC YSU
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